Destiny Durieux
Aug 9, 2017 · 2 min read

“Your” way, not “their” way.

I am attracted, I am attractive.

Where does love stand when sexualized thoughts control our bodies, before our heart even knows whats best.

“What am i getting into?” the thoughts bursts into flame when you realize youve entrusted sexual releif, potentially with a person you have not yet fell in love with. It can be positive or negative in that very moment.

Is it love or a collection youve started, we all have our moment of realization, when its time to say goodbye.. And sometimes we even end up with a kiss every morning for the rest of our lives. To collect those moments with the ones we leave behind, is it selfish or selfless? Did you learn something from it or did you create a pattern of bad habbits?

Just as long as you stand your ground, theres no shame in being on your own, choosing who to love! You dont need anyone but you, you are the reason of happiness.. your pleasure is all a choice you have to make, with the satisfactory of being your own maker.

We all have our preference for lifestyle, comfort and control. You can take total control of your sexuality, just as long as youre comfortable. Comfortable with loving many times and/or giving your all for one.. whatever life you’ve chosen, just remember your neighbor doesnt have the same home/style. Our sexually driven bodies are not a secret.. Our preference is not like our neighbors. We are not built to be 100 percent alike. We are all designed with similarities but still impossible to be cloned.

Modesty? Still sexy. You can cover your body head to toe and you still have sexuality. You cant hide attraction with clothes, you cant hide your fermones with poor attitude towards life. To embrace your sexuality with modesty, No ones business, until you give them the business.

“Sharing is caring”, who cares. Self love, is loving what you do.. Because you have flaws and you are freaky in your own way. You can be freaky in many ways, with many influencers, people you lust/love/fuck. You get what you get when you go and get it .. Whatever that may be, i only hope you take what youve gotten out of life and make it something positive.

Though life makes happiness feel inpossible at times, you have a choice, the world you live in only controls your breath when you stop living. So as long as youre breathing, live your life as a seductive goddess or the modest goddess that you are.

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