HOW DO YOU FIND YOUR TRIBE?
(my self-delusional & most likely bias perspective)
May you find the ‘essence’ and let go. In other words, read and take what you find relevant my dear friends.
I haven’t quite shared the insight of Sah’s inner writings before, so it could be chaotic; it could be whatever you want it to be. It could be less than I want it to be perceived as, but who really cares? shucks…this is just me writing my insight on something I consider important and should be writing something actually important, but instead I am doing this. Make sense? Let’s go. (Oh yeah, I write how I think, literally. I don’t formalise anything. This IS my brain to paper/the keyboard). Enjoy.
LET US BEGIN!
1. Inner reflection
Understanding what type of connections that you want in life is taking step one. Most people to my surprise (not really) allow themselves to be surrounded by people that bring them down, and therefore become very much in the same shoes as those ‘friends’. It’s not crazy to write a list of the ‘type’ of people you want in your life, and it’s not crazy to write what you don’t want. I hear it all of the time by my lovely like-minded folks, regurgitating the Jim Rohn saying that we are the 5 people that we surround ourselves with.
There is a great truth to that regurgitation, despite acknowledging its over use. Beginning to develop awareness of your inner circle, you can indeed allow you to begin to find like-minded people. That then requires the next step, having the courage to put your self out there and attract those people…read on

2. It’s time to try new things?
Contemplating what picture you want as your reality is a great, challenging, creative process. It takes courage and strength to begin that journey on it’s own. You must also not forget to do the most difficult part of all, put your self out there into the abyss. If you struggle to identify what it is that you like in the first place, I have other recommendations for you. Let’s speak for those willing to spare the ‘ego’, and put themselves in the unknown. It’s an exciting time to experiment, new hobbies are a simple method to finding like-minded people. Trying new things will expand and contract your previous perceptions of your inner circle. I believe taking risks, is what many people struggle with internally. Holding their concerns onto how others will perceive them. If you are willing to be true to yourself, you will try what ever it is that your heart is telling you to do. Experimenting will teach you what it is that you like, dislike and bring your consciousness of the ‘who and what’ it is that you want in your life, together. Make space for this when revolutionising the ‘you’ network.
3. Branching networks, look at attending meet ups.
In this day and age my ‘cold’ heart doesn’t sympathise for the generic excuse that there aren’t good people around. There are clubs (paid and free) available almost anywhere appropriate. I personally find Facebook to be amazing, despite what people say. I have met more like-minded individuals through communities on here, which have led to meet ups and friendships. If people are struggling to find ‘time’ to dedicate to hobbies, then I would consider a process of prioritising is necessary. It is in a big way your mindset that holds you back, it’s a practice of dedication to not be enslaved by your own mind.
4. Shame or judgement? let go of that. People don’t really care. It’s a good idea to be you.
I always have learnt that living in the past or future has the ability to consume our mind. In order to live a more present state of being, we need to loosen up our concrete perception of reality. Being honest with ourselves is what it takes to dip our toes into the waters of self-awareness. In relation to what I’m pressing the button on here, we need to soften our ego, perceptions and stories that we have of the world. We need to step into fear with love, so to speak and begin treading a road that is less travelled. I know you like my endless analogies so I will keep going. Consider ‘layers’ of uncloaking veils that you are in charge finding people that are great to you. Uncloak who has not been great to you, and who has been the opposite.
When it comes to letting go, of that thing we call fear. You might find comfort knowing that everyone experiences fear, all 7.2 billion of us. Being true to yourself, begins with your core values, beliefs and dream. And why you might ask? collectively your dream, beliefs, and core values should be aligned with everything that you do. If they are living through everything that we do then it should not be difficult to identify good and bad relationships.
5. Intuition. The mind. The heart. Collectively tell you when to commit.
It’s strange when I see people calling quits on a part of their life that they seem to be loving. Internally somewhere along that road, that person began to lose interest. Maybe it was belief in themselves or perhaps they were painting a smile that it was good for them. I feel like I could speak centuries about the connection between our mind, heart and gut. I will keep it simple. Your intuition is more powerful than your mind, and your heart is the very impetus of your being. Your mind is often the very thing that gets you into cycles of trouble in the first place. When you say, I’m going to follow my heart and try something new without feeling judged, well done. You just allowed your inner self to take control. People lose trust of their intuition because unfortunately society has been robotically programmed to be intellectuals. The three work in synchronisation, not by segregation. Trust your heart, and your intuition that it will all work out.
6. Have the courage to tell the world you are looking!
If you know who you want in your life now, it’s time to make it known. The easiest method is social media. Remember it’s all about putting yourself out there, and being happy with you. Being authentic is like a shining light in the dimension of social media, speak out on there and i am sure you will be pleasantly surprised.
7. Sahrita’s #1 principle in EVERYTHING. Love yourself.
Little bit of mothering here, but guys lets get real with you.
There is not enough love in the world as it is, don’t contribute. I have a core belief that loving starts with ‘me’ or ‘I’. Love your self before all else to be the most bright version of you. This is vital for connecting with your tribe. This is also vital for having loving relationships of all areas in your life.
People on here tend to enjoy scrolling for less intimate posts, short videos and such. To all that enjoy a read, thank you for taking the time out of your day to learn, hopefully take the essence from this and use it to your best intentions.
As I continue to build my own tribe, I’ve realised that it is a process. As your life continues to grow, you’ll learn more about yourself and bring more beautiful souls into your circle. Have the bravery to reach out and relish in your honest connections.
Reach out to me for any questions, I am just a message a away.
Love & chi to all.
Sahrita Wilson: https://www.facebook.com/Sahritawilson.innerguidance/
