In case you were confused. — There seems to be some confusion as to what a lesbian is. I have noticed this from some of the private messages I have received on Facebook and Twitter. Hopefully this post will clarify some things. Lesbian does NOT mean: • A woman who is romantically interested in men. • A…

Rape jokes are not funny and not okay. — Last night I took my family of 7 to Tuesday Night Comedy Night with Mark Pitta and Friends in Mill Valley at the Throckmorton Theater. I often go to Tuesday Night comedy and have been a big supporter of it for years. …

Sometimes it is better to just keep quiet — @Sally_K I’m the type who usually blabs my big, giant goals and resolutions to the world in hopes that I will actually do them if I shout about them to everyone. This theory didn’t work so well last year. In January, I posted how I was starting Crossfit and was…

I don’t fit in the box. — I have spent the last 20 years trying to decide which box to check off when filling out forms. Married Single Divorced How about none of the above? Until 2008 when marriage equality sort of happened in California, I was in a committed “domestic partnership” relationship. No box for that…