Samuel Pearlman
Jul 28, 2017 · 1 min read

Ron – this isn’t a list of chores, these are ways to make your partner (or prospective partner, or friend) feel safe, valued, and enjoy your presence in her life. If you aren’t doing these things, then you don’t deserve similar treatment in return. See how it’s reciprocal? It’s not give give give, it’s more give to show you are worthy of receiving. That you value this human who isn’t you, and can care about more than yourself. If you think they are just “watching the show” for their entertainment or that treating someone with care is giving in to “pet-hunting”, you have missed the entire point.

    Samuel Pearlman

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