1. CONSIDER YOUR MISTAKES
Never show your ego, always try to admit your mistake. If you want to do things Many grown-ups are not humble enough to admit to their fault. Will you destroy your relationship just because of your pride and ego?
2. EXPLAIN THE REASON WHY YOU DID
Try to elaborate on the things behind the event. Let’s discuss this openly. Give the background sequence of events that led to you being on the wrong. A blank apology doesn’t address the issue.
3. ACTIVELY LISTEN YOUR PARTNER HOW HE/SHE FEELS
Allow your partner to be aggressive, cry, shout, and tell you how much your actions/words pain him/her. Emotions and hurt shouldn’t be hidden if true reconciliation and healing are to occur. This also shows you care for your partner’s feelings
4. ALWAYS SAY SORRY
Give brief details and eagerly ask for forgiveness. Let your partner hear you say, ‘I am sorry, please forgive me’ It was my mistake. I’ll never hurt you again.
5. COMMIT TO NOT DOING IT AGAIN
Try to convince your partner that you won’t repeat the mistake and mean it. An apology is empty if it’s not sincere and honest.
6. SURRENDER YOURSELF IN FRONT OF YOUR PARTNER IF YOU ARE FORGIVEN
Get to hear your partner say ‘I forgive you’. Hope so you’ll never hurt me again. listen carefully and make eye contact.
7. THANK YOUR PARTNER FOR FORGIVING YOU
Appreciate the kindness of your partner’s heart to forgive you. It takes love to overlook your wrong, don’t take that for granted.
8. GIVE A KISS
After the brief and hectic discussion or argument Kiss each other and try to reconcile things and create a strong emotional bond. Now that your partner has forgiven you, your lips will be well-received.
9. MAKE LOVE
Your partner’s heart feels safe because you care, you feel pardoned; make passionate love to bring you two even closer. Make-up sex.
10. DO SOMETHING SWEET
Go out of your way to make your partner smile: leave a love note under the pillow, buy her flowers or a gift, cook his favorite meal, take a photo of the both of you happy and frame it, and cater to each other.
11. ARRANGE A DATE FOR YOUR PARTNER
Go out on a romantic and memorable date. Look into each other’s eyes, hold hands of each other, give an erotic kiss, melt each other’s hearts, dress up well, and go out for a night to remember.
12. CONSIDER EACH OTHER’S LOVE
Express your emotions and tell each other how much you love and mean to each other, leave no doubt about your love, show that you two still have love, ‘you’re still the one that I love you’
13. CHANGE YOURSELF
The best kind of sorry is when you change yourself. Let your partner see a new behavior in you.
14. DON’T KEEP A RECORD OF WRONGS
Don’t remember the wrongs of each other, try to forget and move on. If you are continuously reminded of those toxic moments then things are never gonna settle and you’ll never feel their love.
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