Change — for betterment or a necessity

“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old but on building the new.”

We either hate change or fear it — one thing is for sure it is always around us. No matter what the age, changes are certain. Having same belief, I relocated to a new place alone. It’s been a year now. This one year brought lots of new experiences, people, habits, practices, etc — I call it as a new era of my life (the third stage!).

Believe me, it was never too easy to accept the change and start living with it. However, by taking the interest and getting involved, it is likely, the new will be better! (it is certainly)

Though a new beginning required and still requires being:

· Sturdy — to handle the things

· Acceptance — to accept the new place, surroundings, environment

· Learning curve — to know more about the domicile n people

· Patience — to cope with new as well as tough situations

· Support — the most significant part, family n friends support

Initially the must-have for me was “Family support”. I am lucky enough to get 100% support from my family and friends. No matter what I talk, ask or raise, I always get solution and encouragement from my family. Let it be my better half or my sweet kids or my best friends; all are available.

Moving out of your house was shuddering yourself to dare and leave your comfort zone aside. However, having my loved ones with me, is exactly that helps me to embrace the changes, adjustments with excitement and curiosity! :)

For a person like me, who never stayed alone in her entire life (I am not gonna share my age though :P), this is the bachelor phase!