Victoria, as I said, if nothing else works, seek a legal solution. Also, if you say in a humorous way, I’ll bet your wife wouldn’t like that and my husband sure wouldn’t”, it might give him pause for thought. The woman you describe in the “boss” situation is going to have serious problems anyway. If she gets fired she needs to get an attorney and file suit. Still, if she doesn’t have a witness it will be difficult. Even if she wins it’s a dark situation. Word spreads and she might have a problem getting another job. Of course if she wins enough money she might not have to work. He said, she said, is not a winning combination in these suits. If it were me I would quit immediately and find another job.