Victoria, it is NOT “ OK to allow sexual harassers to keep doing what they do?” Why would a woman stay in an environment where this is happening? Don’t they have enough sense to get out immediately. Some of these guys will never change and subjecting herself to this day in and day out is plain STUPID. QUIT! And, then call the wife and tell her why you quit. Indeed, the only alternative as you see it is to file a suit, he said, she said. Why would she put herself through this unless she is looking for the payoff? Another job would be Wfar better than what she would go through for years trying to prove the unproveable. Women like Andrea STAYED. Why? No, it’s not at all like a rape victim. Nobody was raped. Please don’t over dramatize. QUIT before this becomes serious. She wasn’t forced to stay there. These guys who can’t take “NO” for an answer are sick puppies. Don’t subject yourself to this unless you want it to get worse and you are hanging out for the big bucks. She needed to think more of herself to begin with. She tried complaints to management. When they did nothing why did she stay? Some women make themselves victims. Yes, these things are wrong and sickening. Get out while you are still yourself. Staying is enabling this behavior.