I really liked your perspective
Brave and wise
Personal and real
Because we r dualistic beings we need contrast to see ourselves and appreciate something
In other words
Sadness helps us know and appreciate happiness
Pain helps understand health etc
Another way to think about this is each of these dualities is 2 components of one thing
2 sides of a quarter
I read a great comic where Dream said to A demon
Hell has no meaning if not for dreams of heaven!
U r a strong brave human who embraces the darkness and shows the light within it
Another cool concept u reminded me of
At the start of Genesis they say light and dark were one until they were separated!
U have my wheels turning at light speed!
I suspect you impact many this way.