Leave some space in your mind to think about the situation of others.
I woke up early in the morning and received 4 messages from one of my friend, and those were quite rude. I cleared my eyes and sat up in my bed and started reading her messages. Last night I sent her an Islamic video which was general and it was in my mind that according to Islamic point of you it is beneficial for every girl so I sent that so. But she minded that I thought all this about her that is why I sent her that video. I got hurt due to her rude attitude but I didn’t say anything to her. I just said “I’m sorry I made a mistake. But you are taking me wrong.” But she didn’t accepted first then I said, “Its your mind think whatever you want, I’m not saying anything in my defense”. Because the things that she said in her text I never ever think about her, so saying is far apart. I just kept myself calm and started thinking why she said all this, although I was in toilet at that time. :D
Then I realized that it was not her fault it was just her misunderstandings that she had in her mind, which allowed her to say all those rude words.
We all are human, and we all make mistakes to learn, and I learnt from this, is that, we must have some space in our mind that why other person did this or this blah blah.
I didn’t say anything to her because I realized her situation but she said some rude words, this act of mine didn’t cause any grudge between us I kept quite and later she said sorry of her rude attitude because she was upset and frustrated, I don’t know why. But I was happy that I kept myself calm and it stopped us from all those harsh words
I must say be calm and quite when one is in anger or hyper, this thing can control the whole situation.
Stay Blessed Readers! :)