Be interested instead of interesting

The idea of being interested and not interesting have a different fact in our daily life.
When i read chapter
“Do this and you’ll be welcome anywhere ”
from Dale Carnegie’s book i taught a lesson that if you are interested someone’s story you get good result as other one also take interest in your story. I taught how to win friends and influence people.

“You should focus on being more interested than interesting ” (Jacqueline Novo grate)
Here is two points I’ll explain in this blog that,s are
- Aim to be interested rather than interesting
- How to win friends and influence people , Quite a lot.
What i have noticed is that in business networking and social media, too many people focus so hard on being interesting that they aren’t interested

So here’s a thought
You go to business networking events for sake of your own business? That,s why you joined a networking organisation, that,s why you get up at silly O’clock and drive for half an hour to have breakfast with people. You do that because you want to grow your business.
The second point of my project also very interesting by itself that interaction with your friends chit chat them observed them how much they are interested in your questions

so i talked to my friends continuously for 24 hours and my experience about them they were just interested themselves they told about their activities with full of interest ,what they do in their free time etc.
I want to say something that you can’t force other people to be interested but they being interested in their stuff you will win more friends you will learn along exact way exactly WHAT they are interested in, so you can craft your approach to fit that.
Business working and Social gives you so many opportunities to learn what the people around you are interested in. Just take time to listen before you broadcast.