When I Married Someone Else’s Girlfriend!!

There is a HUGE difference between the girl you date and the woman you marry.

I realized this about 4 years ago; when I had a girlfriend like everyone else.

But I was not able to marry her (there’s nothing new in this).

Instead, I married SOMEONE ELSE’S girlfriend (now, this is unusual).

I loved my girl a lot and we were very happy. We used to go out for parties, dinners and shopping together. I didn’t want anything else from life.

But reality knocked my door when my parents didn’t give their consent to our match. L

My mom said, “You’re just an ATM machine for your so called girlfriend”.

My heart shattered into so many pieces after hearing this. I tried to prove that she’s not like that, but I failed.

Within 3 months, I got married to another girl.

She is my mom’s best friend’s daughter. I knew her and also knew that she had an alcoholic boyfriend before she got married to teetotaler me.

For the first few months, we used to feel awkward in each other’s presence.

Slowly we became comfortable and our life was going smooth like butter.

But, I was constantly searching for love, the passionate love I shared with my girlfriend.

This was getting on my nerves, I mean, how I can feel that burning love while sitting at the table discussing how to use the last 30 dollars in our bank account?

How can I feel it when I think it makes perfect sense to put my socks on the floor after you’re done with them? But, she has this crazy idea that they need to be in the laundry basket.

One day, we had an argument; I took my Mac and bolted out of the room into the study.

I put an ice pack on my head and started surfing internet.

There I found a post on differences between the girl you date and the woman you marry. Out of curiosity, I started reading it and felt like it was written for me only.

Then I realized that my mom was right and my ex made a fool out of me. Huh

I used to think that she wants to spend some quality time with me and that’s why we go everywhere together.