
… because I was constantly making sure everyone else was comfortable, even the most remote stranger. I realized I was placing myself in unsafe environments for fear of hurting someone else’s feelings for saying no. Realizing this internalized need to make everyone else comfortable I began to speak about it with m…
…t was strange that he had to explain himself to me like that, he immediately became very defensive. He said that I was rude and he didn’t know why he wasted his time with someone who doesn’t know ‘something good when it’s looking at them.’”