living in one of two environments: one they control, or one that controls them.
How to Make World-Class Choices In Every Area of Your Life
Anthony Moore

I think for many people it’s a blend of the two — and the trick is to be a little more IN control than OUT of control. Perhaps the serenity prayer is helpful here.

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