Hi Quinn. I think she means me. You both have my sincere appreciation for your the brave things you’ve said.
What is eerie here is how much of what you are describing and recommending overlaps what I’ve told him ever since first stated his plan to have an affair with me a year and a half ago.
And yes, I’ve leaned on that community of friends, colleagues and enablers to be accountable as well, from that time onward.
It’s not a 100% match, it looks like plenty enough for us to agree on what is required for “what’s next” and “the future.”