Are you actually for real? “Real rape”? As opposed to “imaginary rape?” You clearly aren’t aware that the majority of rapes don’t fit you idea of a “real rape” – most are committed by someone known to the victim, be that a partner, friend or relation. NOT the monster lurking in a dark alley. And nobody needs to set out the rules before a date – no one should assume that a date, be that a first date or date with a long-term partner, will lead to sex so why the hell should anyone need to spell it out beforehand!? Just in case you STILL don’t get it RAPE IS RAPE IS RAPE IS RAPE.