Abrasive how? Isn’t it funny how the one response that wasn’t a recommend to my comment is from a man criticizing a woman’s “tone”.

I’m really curious to understand why you felt so inclined to post this response when you are neither the author nor is your comment remotely related to the post topic. Can you help all of us better understand what purpose your remark made other than to give us another example of a man who just doesn’t get it?