I can understand your perspective — it bothers me, too, when people want to pick fights instead of actually debate an issue. I have learned over time that the people like that are not interested in changing. The people they attract as followers are not interested in changing.
Personally, I don’t accept responsibility for others decisions and as I’ve run across these kinds of people and seen how their lives turn out in the long run -the best thing to do is stay clear because they blow up their own life and the lives of those around them. I believe that the angry, hateful people would prefer to yell and scream and bully others — if the rest of us accept their behavior for what it is — a tantrum, and we walk away and ignore them, then we can focus on making change happen while they’re wailing and flailing about in a corner somewhere.
