This didn’t make much sense to me.
Elise Bauman Snow

It never occurred to me that people would take the title so literally as to assume I mean that poly folks don’t have committed primaries — relationships that last a long time. In the piece I mentioned primaries, and then in the last paragraph said that the only people who can have both (spark chasing and long burning) are people who are good at poly. The title is a figure of speech much like “shit or get off the pot” — not meant to communicate binaries ;)

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