Katie — yes. Thank you for writing pretty much what I’ve been thinking. And I’m so sorry that Sheryl, like you and I, is now a member of The Club No One Wants To Join. Those who are lucky enough *not* to be members—please especially pay attention to, “In a few weeks after everyone who has flown in from all parts has left, it will get worse.” When someone you know faces a great loss, it’s likely more important to show up 1 or 3 or 6 months later than right away. Don’t worry about getting it exactly right, just reach out.