Dr Sarvesh Jain
2 min readApr 23, 2024

How to get a girl?

The reason why girls often don't choose nice guys who treat them right is because they lack self-love. When someone treats them right: with courtesy and respect, they feel uneasy.

They feel they don't deserve it, and because of this feeling, they think the other person needs them more than they need him.

When you live in a delusional world where all nice guys are needy, it reduces their value drastically. More often, girls don't feel that simple guys are mysterious enough to continue being with them.

They want stupid boys who hurt them, who ignore them, and who don’t even care if they're alive or not. Because good guys are plain and boring, and in this century, who loves boring?

These days, good looks and money are not enough to impress a girl. You also need to be foolish enough to constantly show love, care, and respect even when you don't mean it.

You have to pretend that you care about their silly habits, their nonsensical thoughts, and their overly ambitious desires.

While they treat you as a backup, someone to turn to when they need validation, affection, and attention so that they can forget about their pathetic lives.

Unless you are willing to do all these things above and beyond, you won't get a girl.

In a relationship who has better emotional control wins. Everything else is a variable.