I have chills. Carly, this is beautifully written. I am so fucking proud of you and love you so much. I have known you for years but never more so than I do in this moment. Sharing this story will help you. It will help other people. It will NOT deter anyone from hiring you or dating you or loving you. Put it back on Facebook. Do not take it off of Medium. It is honest and illuminating and wise.