Can throw that right back at you : maybe you should accept that those (real) scenarios are why women make different choices.
Either way, one cannot generalize for such a large group of people. And even if some women are making those choices voluntarily, how does that make the demand for gender equality (=feminism) invalid?
Maybe the fact that the feminist movement continues to increase in popularity is an indication of what women really want (=equality).
Anyway, I’m out of this before it turns into a time-sink of an internet fight that changes nothing.