Aug 8, 2017 · 1 min read
It may be too simplistic to portray the cisgender man as reacting from a place of sexual insecurity. Among many reasons could be a genuine concern that the trans partner is the one who is insecure, having “changed” once, why wouldn’t they change again?
I suppose the answer would be that any relationship comes with insecurities, imagined or real. It would be enlightening to have the conversation rather than speculating here but I have never met a trans person, to my knowledge.
The one thing I can say for certain is that, as an average cis-man I would welcome the opportunity to talk openly to people who do not identify as cisgender and I don’t believe I am in a minority with that view.