My mind was blown with this article. While I was reading this I was thinking about the things I’ve faced before and each word you wrote there is completely right.
When you said that our struggles defines us and not our desires, I realised the importance of not compare yourself with others, none walks the same path in life.
Also, not expecting anything from anything is explained so well. Sometimes when people comes up with this, there is some hatred or pain in the background, but thinking that the universe doesn’t owe us anything because we are art of a bigger entity eases the spirit.