Being a girl is not easy.
Yes, it is not easy to be a girl. Our own life is not our own. We are treated as a puppet and we are moved by pulling strings that are controlled by society, relatives or by our family members.Our life evolves around the thoughts of others and what people think about us. Yes, we are girls we are not allowed to live our life according to our own wishes. We are supposed to do limited things that society wants to make us do. We are told one thing over and over since childhood as soon as you grow up, you will be married to a man who will shower you with all his love but for that, you need to be beautiful we are taught that beauty is important to marry a well-settled guy. We are recognised for our beauty and if we are not beautiful then there must be something wrong with us and that needs to be fixed by making up or by putting on a face pack or by something that makes our skin fair.
Yes, we are a girl, getting married to a man of our family's choice is an important milestone in our life. We are treated as a puppet our only purpose is to get married and have children.
We are identified by the dash of vermilion on our forehead and by our beauty.
Well, In Islam we are considered to be a "Rehmat" whereas In Hinduism we are considered as "Devi".
We live in a society where on we are respected and worshipped and on other side, we are treated as an object.we are used for sexual pleasure that we have given the name of love.
When it comes to having sex with your husband, even if you are on periods, even if you don't want to have.
Despite your refusal, he will do whatever he wants to do regardless of your feelings because he is a man. it's understandable for him to not be able to control himself in the matter of sex.
If a girl raises her voice against the wrong action then people around her will say this
Then why did you get married?
Yes, it's the right of your man to touch you to satisfy his sexual desires.
Yes, If he rapes you that is also normal because he is your husband you are an object for him.
Yes, honey, he can do anything he wants to do with you.
But yes, you can raise your voice but in a diplomatic way. Yes, I know that it's hard for girls to take that first step to speak up but you need to believe that it will give you the courage to deal with such a problem.
Yes, it is true, it will not wipe out your problems but give you the courage to speak for your rights.
