So an important part of your efforts to protect them will be to challenge the normalisation of sexual violence wherever you see it, and encourage them to do the same. Individual safety can never be guaranteed while our society continues to function like it does.
I don’t have all the answers, and I don’t know your children, but I do know that creating a safe…
OluTimehin Adegbeye

Thank you for this: the article and the responses. I don’t have kids now, and I’m not in any way close to having any, but when I do, I’ll save this for them to read. I’ve always battled with explaining personal responsibility without going down the road of victim blaming, so this has really helped. Most of all, I’m glad you’ve risen above this life adversity. You’re an inspiration. Thank you again.