Maybe the most damaging aspect of Hefner’s vision was that, like many things in midcentury America…
Chip Daniels

Well, I’m not sure I agree that sexuality is a “wild and untamable power that can control our actions for both good and evil”. I think sexuality is a strong force for all of us, and I think we owe it to ourselves — both men and women and people who identify across the gender spectrum — to understand our own sexuality better than we do. I think it only remains “wile and untamable” as long as it remains a mystery to us, and something we fear because we don’t understand it — especially for men, who’s sex education is not nearly as comprehensive as women’s, and I think men suffer for that.