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The Self-Love Oracle

The Self-Love Oracle

The Self-Love Oracle is a guidebook and deck of 44 cards, each bearing an affirming and loving message.

2021

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From Numbing Out to Crashing Out

A look at how I survived my teen years in the 1990s and the mental health crisis among teen girls now

Sep 26

From Numbing Out to Crashing Out

Sep 26

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Don’t Create A Reality that Teens Need to Escape

If young people are turning to AI chatbots for better interactions and answers on how to “shift reality”, maybe reality needs better adults…

Sep 20

Don’t Create A Reality that Teens Need to Escape

Sep 20

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No, AI Can Not and Will Not Replace Therapy

Effective counsellors and therapists know AI isn’t enough.

Sep 9

No, AI Can Not and Will Not Replace Therapy

Sep 9

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In Competition with My Mother

I didn’t know that my birth was my entry into a misery contest.

Sep 1, 2023

In Competition with My Mother

Sep 1, 2023

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This armor? I paid dearly for it

I’m done apologizing for protecting myself from toxic attitudes towards younger Asian women from “my own kind”

Dec 19, 2023

This armor? I paid dearly for it

Dec 19, 2023

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The Overlooked Strength that Builds Better Relationships

We’re all born with it, but it’s not always valued or nurtured.

Aug 15

The Overlooked Strength that Builds Better Relationships

Aug 15

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How to Maintain Momentum at Work

If work has turned monotonous or stagnant, it doesn’t have to be.

Aug 11

How to Maintain Momentum at Work

Aug 11

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Attachment Style According to Roommate History

A long line of less-than-ideal living arrangements taught me about compatibility and how we handle relationships.

Aug 5

Attachment Style According to Roommate History

Aug 5

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“You Create Your Own Reality” is a Bad Idea

It’s all love and light until you reach burnout and the Expectation-Reality Gap.

Jul 3

“You Create Your Own Reality” is a Bad Idea

Jul 3

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Therapy Changed My Relationship with Material Things

It wasn’t decluttering strategies or decor manuals that helped me to let things go. It was understanding myself and my needs.

Oct 19, 2024

Therapy Changed My Relationship with Material Things

Oct 19, 2024

Janet Chui

Janet Chui

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I'm a counselor, therapist, artist, and creator of the Self-Love Oracle (https://bit.ly/selfloveo). I write about mental health, culture, psychology, and woo.

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