Why I’m Ashamed of the Royal Wedding

Seph Hallow
2 min readMay 18, 2018
Left: Grenfell Tower (image by Natalie Oxford); Right: the happy couple (image by Mark Jones). Both CC 2.0 license.

As a British expat who moved to Vancouver six months ago, there are a few questions I’ve gotten used to.

Where are you from?

How close is that to London?

Are you excited about the Royal Wedding?

Respectively: Yorkshire; geographically and culturally, very far; and no: it makes me feel sick.

I’m not bitter about love, or marriage, or its public celebration. I don’t care that celebrity culture means millions of unconnected people will be watching an intimately emotional moment.

What makes me ashamed is the estimated £30m of public money going toward security — when, three miles away, 11 months ago, 72 people died in a fire because of tight public purse strings.

It feels like an act of collective dissociation, to hold both a lavish royal wedding and the facts of Grenfell Tower against one another in our heads and admit they are contemporary parts of our national history. To know that less than a year ago people died in one of the most dehumanising ways possible, because…

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Seph Hallow
Seph Hallow

Written by Seph Hallow

British-born, Victoria-based storyteller. they/them www.sephhallow.com

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