In terms that teenage girls will understand: “do you need some cheese to go with that whine?”.

Yes, zoom has problems. Name any other teleconferencing software that doesn’t have problems and I’ll give you a lollypop (or some cheese if you prefer).

If you don’t like zoom, don’t use it. And don’t blame your family or your friends if they still use it.

I will say that every time I join a zoom meeting, I make a conscious decision to only share things that I am willing to share.