Fee,

You bring up some honest and important “issues” that need to be addressed. I hope many black women who read this take a minute to reflect on their own practices. Thank you for speaking the truth of your experiences; it has truly helped me. Your essay reads very strongly and to be honest (if I allowed myself to internalize it , which I haven’t) its very rude. The exact actions you accuse “black women who are feminist” of utilizing seem to be your mode of communicating your grievances. I think its counterproductive and an unnecessary means of conveying a point. We all have a responsibility to be a mirror and maybe this is a opportunity for you to look at your reflection.