Thanks for the article Emma, really. Although I don’t have much dating experience, I obviously know it is wrong to coerce someone into having sex. It is not very different from ‘rape’ per se. The 2nd boyfriend you described seemed psychopathic and I am glad you realised it early(or not?) and break it clean from him.
I think the first red flag should be that he lacks motivation in life. It is unfathomable how a guy who is only interested in video games can do much in his life. Such animalistic behaviour is expected of him. Perhaps you should have noticed that early and shun him off. Oh well lesson learnt.
Thanks and all the best!