Yes, Rusul!!!! Our voices are not only shut down by society but also by black men who laud over those same fiery ‘exotic’ women YET will use our ‘attitude’ to justify why they don’t date black women even if we are making the same exact demands. Making it seem as if the things other women gripe about about (security, commitment/marriage, and financial stability) we don’t have the right to. So many points we can bring up /discuss/and write about.