Great post. The truth is we can never live in harmony with sociopaths. They don’t want peace or harmony. They get pleasure from hurting, abusing, using, and conning us. Sociopaths will drain your time, energy, emotions, and your wallet. They don’t care the mental and emotional and funny financial harm they cause you. They only care about themselves. Plus they have a very hateful streak in them. So taking everything important from you is not enough for them. They want to destroy you. They will start smear campaigns, telling lies about you in order to ruin your relationships with others, then they will attempt to destroy your career. They won’t stop until you are broken and an empty sad shell.
I have witnessed this. It’s truly horrible. I think they enjoy doing this to their victims.
They are so good at what they do because they play the victim. They tell others their “sad” story. They are master manipulators. They are clever and leave no trace of what they have done behind.
I saw my husbands ex wife do this to him. They share a child. He was a truly good man. He would never abandon that child, she knew it. She used the child to make his life difficult and painful. He loved his little girl so much. She was always asking for more money. Nothing he gave her was never enough. He was giving her at least $5k a month for a while. Until the child got older and he cut communication off with her and was able to communicate through the child (this started when she was 14) The sociopath was livid, enraged that he wasn’t responding to her ridiculous demands. So that made life even harder. Especially after she decided I was the reason for this. It was his decision alone. He feared her though. I did as well. She went on a personal campaign to destroy me. With blogs wrote in anonymity. But google my name and these sites came up. They looked like sites that I created. And the things she wrote made me look like a pathetic, insecure, nut job. It was a terrible experience for me. I eventually had to file a police report to get all the slanderous sites taken down. It was a nightmare.
My husband recently died from cancer at a young age. So you would think that the connection with her would be severed.
No. She is still trying to destroy me. Worst thing is she is now targeting my 13 year old child. It’s been so stressful. I have lost sleep. I live in fear. And my husband is dead. And I sometimes feel like I have no one who can understand. Fortunately my husbands good friend and colleague knows this evil woman and what she is capable of. So his help to get her out of my life forever (hopefully) means the world to me
