It’s common to feel singled out when facing adversity, questioning why misfortune has befallen us. This often leads to self-blame or resentment towards the world.
The Stoics advocate against both reactions, recognizing that it may not be anyone’s fault. Despite their lack of religious beliefs, the Stoics found the Roman Goddess of fortune, Fortuna, to be a fitting metaphor for destiny. Fortuna, depicted holding a cornucopia and a tiller, symbolized the capricious nature of fate.
Depending on her mood, she might throw you down a perfect job or a beautiful relationship, and then the next minute, simply because she felt like it, watch you choke to death on a fishbone.
For Stoics, acknowledging the unpredictable nature of Fortuna is crucial. Seneca warned, There is nothing which Fortuna does not dare. This understanding prompts skepticism about success and encourages self-compassion in the face of failure.
Much of what we receive in life is undeserved.
The wise person, according to Stoicism, refrains from placing unwavering belief in Fortune’s gifts, like fame, money, power, love and health.
These are not truly ours, and our hold on them should be both light and cautiously aware at all times.
