Shelly Chauhan
Sep 1, 2018 · 2 min read

Because Appearance Deceives

Everyone breaks down in a life at some point or in some situation, it's natural but not recovering from it is not. In this world there are only few who never knocks you down, rest are the people who enjoy watching you down in the dumps.

How backstabbers disguised as friends ?
Those people are living with you, they are your kith and kins but deep inside the heart they’re being jealous from you. They are being jealous with your success, with your bright future because they themselves are lacking behind. They’re the one who stabs you on your back. You don’t even able to discern them among people because they’re disguised as your loved ones. They can harm you beyond cure but if you wanna be safe so sometimes it’s better to play a role of fool, to fool the others. Be benign but be alert.

Let the mask fell off

It’s not the whole world which breaks you, it is these people around whom your world encircles, and they are the only one who deceive you. And you just think you deserve the pain, but you don’t. They feel relief while watching you shattered into pieces.

Stop breaking your own heart.…. If you get failed then you sometimes accept yourself as a looser. This acceptance of being looser leads you to the state of depression. This melancholic state will never let you breathe properly. Instead of taking your failure as a unbearable agony, accept it as a lesson and learn from it. Make it your strength by working hard on it. And stop telling yourself, you’re not good enough. You not only failed in the life’s exam but many times you failed in the relations also. Relations which seems to be very close but pretentious in real. Those relations are volatile. Don’t just get stuckup in these, never give a penny to these types of relations.

Trust is the foundation of every relationship. Be with people but don’t trust them blindly. Don’t depend on them for your work. Decrease the level of your expectations because many times life doesn’t give us what we want, it gives us only what we deserve. So never expect from people, from this world and from your own life too.

I would like to end it by making you aware about the people who have disguised themselves just to break you down. Be a good observer and be alert from hypocrites.

Always remember that "Appearance Deceives" because these two words are enough to guide, the best way to live a happy life.

By Shelly chauhan

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