Nov 2 · 1 min read
So my first marriage broke up when he fell for another woman. They ended up together — it has been 22 years.
I was careful to put the blame where I feel it belonged. He was my husband. He made the vows and promises. He cheated on me.
Turned out she was also married. She cheated on her husband. But she made no promises to me.
I can’t say I respected her or her choices, but to be fair, she was 32 years old and a mother of 2. She wasn’t young and naive.
I remarried a few years later. We both seem to be in better relationships. So maybe I let go of a lot. I was careful at the time to stay focused on the true issue. She didn’t poach my husband.
He saw her and wanted her. He wasn’t tricked.
