I agree with you as a rule, but I also think can be complicated. Some women (agree with them or not) will be aggravated if the guy Doesn’t open the metaphorical door, while some women will get pissed. And yes, my own response will vary. Some guy expecting me to switch doors so that he can open it? OH HELL NO. My husband, who does most of the house cleaning, more than 50% of the child rearing, and never minded my having the bigger paycheck? Thanks honey! Sadly, many guys are not equipped to discern the differences.