I don’t know what your next steps are, but I do know how you feel. After two years of trying (and yeah, increasing boredom), we went to see a doctor with the agreement that we’d adopt before going to “extraordinary measures.” It turned out that my husband needed a minor procedure without which “pregnancy would never happen.” So of course right about the time that he had it, we discovered that we were in fact pregnant. Adopting is always good too — so many kids needing homes! Whichever way you end up going, every path in life has its bonuses. I wish you the best!