Family — Forgiveness
Family ... family can never be ... never be ... never be judgmental. Family will never put you down, will never make you feel small. Family is the only one who will never laugh at your weaknesses. Family is the only place where you will always get love and respect
Recognize this piece of dialogue?
Yes! Sridevi delivers this dialogue eloquently coupled with her brilliant acting skills in the climax of the movie English Vinglish.

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Why this? Well many experts have already written aplenty and spoken in lengths about gas lighting that each of us are victims of and have been the one subjecting it on someone too. Life is a complex concoction of many characteristics, emotions, idealogies, principles, and what better than love that binds it all together.
In a family, there are different kinds of people. They are all brought up with principles and ideas that the elderly teach. A simple family of three these days, has three different opinions and approach. Imagine the amount of power needed back when people lived in big joint families. Hats off to that kind of living. Those are the days to be cherished and hoped to live for. Now, it is difficult, but not impossible. Why is it difficult? Simple, each and every one of us wants to have a say and that needs to be executed as well. That is a difficult feat to achieve with each mindset working at different wavelengths. When the frequencies don’t match, people start behaving indifferently, the master “EGO” starts driving everything down hill from there.
In such situations, people talk a hundred and thousand words unweighed and uncared. Nobody is at fault. It all boils down to how a family can handle such a crisis. There are families that stop communicating with each other, some keep fighting, some even go to an extent of killing one another.
Our question should be, is that the right approach? Is this what we want? Keep grudges in hearts and wait like an animal to ferociously pounce at the right time? NO!
Like, it is said, practiced in the past, talk things out, grow personally every time there comes a crisis, learn from the mistakes of the past, learn to let go and forgive, and last but not the least learn to love.
Family is the only bond that holds us all together in this busy crazy times. Family doesn’t judge us, it doesn’t hold grudges, it loves us in its own unique way, it cajoles us during our tough times, it is our strength to get past any crisis, it is the only place where we can find respect and acceptance, family is us.
Today, let’s forgive those who have wronged us. Today, let’s let go of those events which holds us back from being the bigger person. Today, let’s be the family we want our families to be.
Happy Radiology day. (Coz it is World Radiology day today 😁😁😁)