No tick to the category
Going by the usual saying you cannot replace people. They make a mark and go.But, I feel you always end up filling the specific category of people.And the marks get covered or rather camouflaged with the new people.Unfilled remain those exceptional relationships with humans having no tick to the category . They just dont fall under any category. They are different. Also the inability of your heart to accept new people. Problem is when you are jilted in any of these relationships.Relationship of any sort.Then what people end up with is animosity towards these souls.You are afraid that new relations would be spurned.
In the times where you read articles explaining ghosting and terms similar,you just realise emotional drain happening to others as well.What can be done? Nothing.You just need to focus on yourself. Binge on food,Netflix but dont forget Friends being an option!Or Friends being the only choice!On a personal level,try being good. Emotional manipulation isn’t a great job to be working on.Be kind.Its the same vicious circle. Things are uncertain.When you read this,you are breathing. What if you aren’t when you throw your phone on that table next and walk away. Where thing are uncertain,your life is uncertain,why hurt people? Above all why not just start to keep the endurance towards the idea of your people to hurt?Above all it’s just you.Be the person you want to be.Because every breathe is precious.Life is tiny,the journey counts.
Shivani Tiwari
