It seems to me you weren’t really caring about the reality and rather focused on feeling oppressed and putting a lot of effort to find something you might use as an evidence of oppression. And it seems to me you still behave this way. You also thought a lot in “we vs. them” tribalistic black and white way. That also doesn’t seem to change. I reject to see the labels “feminist” or “MRA” to be descriptive whether one is a nice reasonable person or an asshole. I don’t even find much sense in arguing whether there is more assholes among a group identifying with one term or the other. What I care about is whether what one claims is true and whether the policies one is fighting for are reasonable and just.