“Why “Purple Friday” Should Be a Compulsory Day in High Schools”
As a former high school student who was closeted about my sexuality, I know firsthand the impact of the harmful and degrading language used by my peers. The word “gay” is often used as an insult, and I remember one instance when I used it in retaliation to being called the same. The situation escalated quickly, with the other student grabbing me by the throat and putting me against the wall. This was the only time something like this happened to me in high school, but it left a lasting impression on me and reinforced the fear and shame I felt about being gay.
A recent poll conducted by NU.nl showed that over 85% of respondents were against making “Paarse Vrijdag” (Purple Friday), a day to show support for the LGBTQ community (by some better known as the gay or queer community), a compulsory day in high schools. I strongly disagree with this sentiment and believe that schools should be required to recognize and celebrate this important day.
In my friend’s experience as an LGBTQ advocate, he facilitates group discussions in high schools about sexuality and gender diversity, in which the coming out experience plays a central role. Despite facing hostile and anti-LGBTQ attitudes from some students, he remains determined to share his story and inspire others who may still be closeted. Just last week, he was interrupted by students who called being gay a “wrong mutation” and showed their ignorance and bigotry.
These stories are just a few examples of the discrimination and prejudice that the LGBTQ community faces, especially in the education system. While the Netherlands is generally considered to be a tolerant country towards the LGBTQ community, we are always in the minority and vulnerable to the tolerance of the majority and dominant individuals. In high schools, a small but dominant group can often dictate the narrative and create an unsafe environment for LGBTQ students.
That is why it is crucial for schools to actively promote a safe space for the LGBTQ community and celebrate days like “Paarse Vrijdag.” By doing so, they can take a step towards creating a more inclusive and accepting environment for all students. It is not about forcing schools to participate, but rather recognizing the importance of supporting and uplifting the LGBTQ community. It is time for high schools to take a stand and show their commitment to diversity and inclusion.
