How To Make Him Fall In Love With You (These 15 Things Work All The Time!)
Okay, so since you’re here reading this, I guess there’s a man out there that you’re pretty madly in love with, right?
And you’re kind of afraid that this feeling might be one-sided, so you try everything in your power to get him to fall in love with you as much as you are in love with him. Am I close
The problem with love is, if you have to force it, it’s probably not right.
So make sure you are fighting for the right guy first, and when you are sure that he is worth your time and affection, see to it that he falls in love with you — which I will make you a lot easier on you, so be right thereon.
but before I get right into talking about these things that you should do, I must mention that this article is very lengthy, and for that reason, I would recommend you >>CLICK HERE<< to go and watch a shorter video version of this article where I’ll still show you the secret triggers that can make any guy at all like you like crazy.
but, if you’d prefer to read this article version, just continue reading,
Love comes to everyone in their own time. You can’t speed up something like this.
I know you are trying hard to get him to fall head over heels in love with you, but the most important thing here is patience.
You cannot hasten love. Otherwise, you will only screw it up.
Another thing to remember is that not everyone is meant to be.
If it doesn’t work, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you, nor does it mean that you should blame yourself.
What it means is that sometimes it just doesn’t work. And as difficult as it is to understand while it is happening, you will always understand why it had to end like this after you have healed and looked at it more closely.
Give it all time. Only he knows what he went through and what his experiences with love were. It may take time, so be understanding and patient.
If it’s right, he’ll reciprocate your feelings, and if not, you can move on because you know you’ve given it you’re all.
15 tips on how to make him fall in love with you:
1. Make him feel like you need him
Look, men just love to know they are needed. It’s a man thing. It doesn’t have to mean that you are dependent on him, nor does it make you any less amazing.
I’m sure you are perfectly capable of killing the spider that won’t want to leave your bed or maybe even changing a tire, but all I’m saying is that it doesn’t mean you have all of these. You have to do things yourself.
Now that you know your husband wants you to call him about this little inconvenience, why not take advantage of it and kill two birds with one stone!
First, you will save yourself the hassle of actually having to kill this spider and risk getting the whole web on you, and second, you will strengthen your man’s ego by using him for this manly task. I would call that a success.
Well, if you’ve been single for a while, you’re probably used to being your own handyman and literally doing everything yourself.
Being single really makes you see how amazing and capable you really are, doesn’t it?
But that also means if you want this guy’s love and attention, you have to take it from time to time and actually ask him for his help. Otherwise, he will feel superfluous.
If there’s something your man would do perfectly, don’t hesitate to give him a call. That is literally all you have to do. Ask for his help.
And in return, you get two things. First, you will see how nice it is to have someone you can rely on and who will help you at times, and second, you will give them a purpose.
He likes you too, don’t forget that so it will mean a lot to him too.
2. Spend some time apart (which will make him see how much he misses you)
I know you just want to be with this guy right now and I can understand that. But listen to me
You can still spend insane amounts of time with him, but don’t give him yours all too quickly.
Spending time separately is really positive for couples, especially people in long-term relationships.
Why? Because in most cases there is a chance to miss each other.
But also because you don’t want to be that girl who abandons her girlfriends as soon as she gets a guy. Don’t be such a girl
You have other people in your life who love you and want to spend time with you.
Don’t take her for granted just because you have a man you’re currently obsessed with.
Hang out with your friends, visit your family, tell your grandmother how happy you are (she will be most happy for you), and give them your time.
And when you see your guy again, you will realize how much you have missed him and appreciate his love even more.
It’s nice to know that there is someone out there to return to who will miss you as much as you miss them, isn’t it? So give yourself the chance to experience that!
Plus you will have so much to talk about after this break. See, they are all good things, literally!
So let him miss you a little … it will only make him think about you, and when he thinks about you he thinks about the feelings he has for you too, and I think you know what I mean by that.
3. Flatter him (but only if he deserves it)
You don’t have to make up things that aren’t true. What I mean here is a lot simpler. Let’s say you meet him on a date night.
He shows up and picks you up, and he looks so hot in that shirt. Just tell him exactly what you thought when you saw him!
Or if his hair looks particularly amazing that day…. how hard is it to tell him that?
Guys like to be complimented as much as girls do! Just because they don’t giggle and get shy when they hear a compliment doesn’t mean they don’t like it!
It just means they feel too manly to fool themselves about it, but they really appreciate the occasional flattery reward.
You know how much you love to hear that you are good-looking (don’t you?) So why not make the guy you like so much feel good about himself too!
4. Be REAL (never leave your intelligence in the dark)
I’ve heard so many people say that girls should be stupid to men to make them feel superior, and all I can say is, “What’s this all about?”
Why on earth would I want to pretend I am something I am NOT just to make a guy feel better ??
That thought never crossed my mind, and it shouldn’t invade yours either!
If you have to pretend to be less amazing, less intelligent, or less EVERYTHING then stay away from this guy.
Nowadays it really amazes me to hear this ignorant stupidity…. after all these years of evolution, is that what we have achieved? No thank you.
If there is someone in this world who feels threatened by your intelligence and abilities, then that person has a problem that has nothing to do with you. Let them solve it by themselves and be tough as you are.
No one should ever steal your shine and reduce you to something you don’t want to be. As Ariana said, thank you, next one.
5. Appreciate his masculine side
That doesn’t mean that every time you see him you have to jump on him and admire his muscles with loud moans and so on. No.
You can literally take this any way you want, depending on what masculinity means to you!
You can certainly appreciate his masculine physical aspects but in a more subtle way.
I feel like it’s sexier that way. Don’t yell how hot he is. Better do it slowly and quietly.
When you’re walking down the street, just squeeze his arms a little tighter, and when you feel his muscles a little, just make an impressed face and wink! That’s all it takes.
Being male doesn’t necessarily mean looking masculine and masculine. For me personally, being a real man means treating people kindly and with respect.
Helping an elderly person cross the street or help them carry their shopping bag.
For me, a real man is also patient and does not expect everything to go the way he likes, but works for everything and is grateful when it goes right.
Appreciate sensitivity over vanity, friendliness over recognition, and a helping hand over a closed eye.
And when you have a guy who can tick all of these boxes, you’ve got a real man.
And that’s always something to admire.
6. Don’t rush with your declaration of love
As I said at the beginning, patience is really of the utmost importance here. You can’t rush feelings. You can’t rush love.
And you can’t push someone to feel something that isn’t there yet.
I understand you’re overjoyed about the guy. I know you want to spend as much time with him as possible and you really feel that he could be a good partner for you in the long run.
And that’s all wonderful. But don’t overdo it here. Be smart.
Not all feelings develop at the same pace, and you don’t want him to feel unprepared and surprised with your quick declaration of love.
Here’s what to do when you really can’t help but talk about it. It is really easy. Go to your best friend and tell her all about your feelings.
Tell her how much you want to share it with him. She’s the one who really knows you so listen to what she has to say!
If she tells you it’s too early and you are likely to embarrass yourself by saying these three words too early, listen to her!
She loves you and she literally only wants what’s best for you. If she can objectively tell you how things really are, take care and take her advice.
If you rush it, you may risk putting him in an uncomfortable position where he is just not sure about the moment and needs time to process his feelings and reciprocate the feeling.
That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t feel the same way. That just means he needs time.
You should always respect his time as not everyone is on the same page at the same time. When he feels it, he will show it, one way or another, but don’t push him.
7. Don’t be afraid to tell him you are thinking of him
In the early stages of a relationship, one or both parties are always reluctant to tell the other they are thinking of them for fear of sounding a little too early to be too direct.
This is understandable as the two of you are trying to protect each other from hurt and/or disappointment from the response.
But I’m telling you, things have really changed these days, and for the better! It is no longer disapproving to tell your husband that you are thinking of him; it’s actually pretty cute!
You love to hear that he is thinking of you or that he misses you, so don’t hold back when it comes to reciprocating! It will put a smile on his face, for sure!
You don’t have to be too generous with this. Just send a cute message saying that something you just saw reminded you of him and now he’s back on your mind.
He’s going to find it cute, and it really isn’t that bad even if he doesn’t, because that is really harmless news.
Most guys will appreciate it. If he’s feeling pressured by those cute little text messages, then he’s probably not right for you anyway.
8. Always support and encourage him
One of the most fundamental aspects of a relationship is support.
You have to be there for your partner and show them that you support their ideas and ambitions and that you don’t doubt them. He’s probably full of doubts himself, so be his cheerleader instead.
If he’s interested in sports you really don’t like and/or aren’t interested in at all, you don’t have to suddenly become an avid fan of them.
Just learn a thing or two about it so you can ask him how his favorite team fared in the playoffs or something similar.
If he’s into climbing and you’re afraid of heights, you definitely don’t have to become his climbing buddy.
Just give him support and ask him how it went with a few follow-up questions. Men love them because they show that you are actually paying attention and interested in their hobby!
If he’s waiting for a significant promotion at work and he’s a nervous wreck, don’t add fuel to the fire or make him doubt himself even more.
Better tell him how proud you are of him and that he is amazing no matter how that goes! Let him see his worth in your eyes.
He’s going to feel so much better having you as his main supporter no matter what he’s going through. Everything is much easier when someone is by your side, supports you, and cheers you on.
Be that for your husband! Knowing that you stand behind him will strengthen the bond you already have and also let him see how much he really cares about you. And isn’t that all you really need in life?
Support your husband the way he supports you. Appreciate each other’s strengths and encourage each other through your weaknesses.
9. Love him for who he is and never try to change him
Don’t love him for the parts of him that you like and don’t try to change the parts that you don’t like. That’s not how love works.
Sure, there will always be something that you are not totally excited about, but the sooner you learn to accept EVERYTHING about it, and not just parts that you approve, the sooner you will learn what true love is about.
Acceptance. That is the magic word. The easiest way to get him to fall in love with you is to accept him for who he is.
There will always be something that will piss you off, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned about men it’s that you can never change it. No matter how hard you try.
You are who you are. Of course, I’m talking about little annoying habits here, I’m not talking about him treating you badly in any way! With everything else, you will have to learn to live.
So what if they have an annoying habit, who doesn’t? I’m sure he feels the same about you (nobody is perfect!), And he never tried to change that about you, right?
So do the same for him and accept his quirks and flaws as part of the package. This is the only way to get a guy to fall in love with you.
10. Listen to him
Don’t just listen to him with one ear and text your friends at the same time while checking your Instagram feed.
Really listen when he speaks and heed non-verbal cues. These are usually more telling than what he actually says.
If you pay close attention to him when he speaks, you will give yourself a chance to get to know him better, see what gets on his nerves and what excites him most about life.
Pay attention to his body language. See what he is not telling you in words.
The way his body follows his words is really illuminating.
You will be able to dive really deep into his mind and find out more about him than he may be willing to share orally.
Learn to pick up on those tiny, non-verbal signs he is unwittingly giving out. This will help you know more about him than what he actually says.
Just listen and be a good partner for him. If you want to know how to get him to fall madly in love with you, you’ll find out by listening to what he says. It is really that easy.
11. Small gestures show him how much you appreciate him
Do you know how much you love it when he surprises you with those little, everyday things that somehow always turn out to be big things?
Like remembering how much you wanted the book a few weeks ago and then surprise yourself with it on your birthday?
Or sending you your favorite flowers to work just to brighten your day?
Or just making the coffee the minute you wake up knowing you can’t start your morning without a big cup of black coffee.
Well, now it’s your turn to do the same for him!
The best way to make him fall in love with you is to show him how much you appreciate him with little gestures that will melt his heart!
This is where listening really comes in! You never know what you’re going to get, so be careful.
Listen when he talks about things he is passionate about; about things he loves and values and about things he wishes he had but never got the chance.
Figure out the best way to surprise him and get him one of those things he longs for but has never decided to buy for some reason.
It really doesn’t have to be expensive as long as it comes from the heart.
Get him something that will make him think: “Oh my god, she actually listened when I talked about this last month. How great!”
He will love it more than any expensive gift. Knowing that you pay attention to what he likes and what makes him happy and actually go out of your way to get it for him shows your appreciation and devotion.
And if that doesn’t make this man fall in love with you, then honestly I don’t know anything else. (But it will don’t worry, just give him time if he needs it!)
12. Don’t insult his sense of humor
I know one guy who has this weird sense of humor that not everyone understands, but he’s funny in his own way.
And it never crossed my mind to tell him anything about it, because I really have the feeling that everyone has their own little quirks that set them apart from the others. And that’s his!
I love that he always has to tell a joke wherever he is and he feels so confident no matter how many people are laughing (or not laughing). I always know it’s meant nicely, so I never try to destroy it.
My point is, appreciate the weird little things about your man. This is what sets him apart and makes him unique in his own way.
It’s easy to follow the crowd and adapt to everyone, but it’s difficult to be true to yourself and not care about what the crowd thinks.
Let him have that. Let it be fun and learn to appreciate it. It’s what makes him who he is, and that’s the guy you fell in love with, isn’t it? So don’t change it.
Think about all the little things he might not like about you but would never say anything. He knows better. And he learned to like you even more for her.
So do the same for him. If no one else does, laugh at his jokes and make him happy.
13. Have a little faith in him
Having been hurt before, it is not easy to have trust. I get that. And it’s totally understandable to build a wall around you to protect yourself.
But have a little faith. Understand that this guy isn’t the one from your past who hurt you when you were most vulnerable, who took your heart and then smashed it into small pieces.
That was a difficult time, but that’s another man too, and believe it or not, they’re not all the same!
Learn to trust him and believe that he could actually be exactly who he claims to be.
I’m not saying to serve him all of your heart on a silver platter, but toss him a bone and see if he appreciates it. I guess he will.
If you’re usually the one in control of the decisions in this relationship, try to put the helm in your husband’s hands.
I know it’s hard to lose control, but it might actually be exactly what you need.
Let him show you that he is able to take care of you.
Let him show you that he is capable of making decisions in your relationship and let him plan this weekend getaway once. He may surprise you!
If he feels that you have no faith in him and that you are unable to let him make a single decision, he will not put up with it.
Trust is an essential part of a lasting relationship.
And if you want him to fall in love with you, you have to show him that you trust him enough to let go of your need for control and integrate him.
If you really love him, you have to trust him too. That is the basis for a healthy relationship.
If you want him to be your partner in the long run, you have to be a good partner to him too.
14. Keep your independence
A lot of girls tend to lose track of who they are when falling head over heels with a man.
At the beginning of a relationship, this can be understandable to some extent, but it shouldn’t take long.
A man likes to know that you are an independent woman who does not depend on him for anything and who is able to take care of herself when necessary.
It’s one thing to make him feel like he needs him in certain situations, but you also have to show him that you are a woman of her own, who pursues what she wants and has a good time with people who do love.
As I said, a little separate time in a relationship is healthy and necessary. This is what will make you miss your partner and appreciate them.
But not being able to cross the street without it is unattractive, to say the least.
Be a woman of your own and love your man, but leave a little space for other things that you are passionate about.
Never lose track of yourself over a man who can prove to be an insignificant presence in your life.
15. Have opinions and hold him intellectually
Men are attracted to intelligent, experienced, and ambitious women. Those who don’t appreciate this are not men, but boys.
Have intellectual conversations with him. Delve into deep topics that both of you are interested in and discuss your passions and current events in the world. Have meaningful conversations and show him how intelligent and clever you are.
Let him see that you’re not just a good catch. You also have a brain to support the whole thing!
If he’s a real man, he’ll fall madly in love with you because of your intellect.
It’s great to be able to stimulate him in the sack…. but if you stimulate his mind then you know you will have him hooked.
Relationships tend to get boring when you run out of things to talk about. That can’t happen.
Make sure things stay fresh and don’t just rely on how you look. You are so much more than just a good catch.
Let him see the girl he’s about to fall madly in love with and make him never let you go again!
How To Get A Guy To Like You (The Summary)
- Make him feel like you need him
- Spend some time apart (which will make him see how much he misses you)
- Flatter him (but only if he deserves it)
- Be real (never leave your intelligence in the dark)
- Appreciate his masculine side
- Don’t rush with your declaration of love
- Don’t be afraid to tell him you are thinking of him
- Always support and encourage him
- Love him for who he is and never try to change him
- Listen to him
- Small gestures show him how much you appreciate him
- Don’t insult his sense of humor
- Have a little faith in him
- Keep your independence
- Have opinions and hold him intellectually