dude. I wish people would stop holding marriage and babies on this pedestal like just because we stumbled and found someone to love us unconditionally we have our shit together. WE DON’T. and when you stumble into that relationship and have that baby or 2 or 6 or whatever you’ll see that there’s even MORE shit to NOT have together! we are all on the hamster wheel-I workout and practice meditation to elevate from said wheel but Lord knows I don’t know what I”m doing. My unsolicited advice: listen to your gut. take a walk. Laugh with the people who like you and may even love you. Enjoy what feels like “aintshittogetherness” because life will change — as it often does — and this time will be a memory. Cheers to a life well lived!