Love this — ‘tar and roses’ is such a great phrase!
Kristi Coulter

Are you at all familiar with Gretchen Rubin, and her Happiness Project work/writing? She has described this particular difference between folks as some of us being ‘moderators’ and some ‘abstainers’. It’s an interesting concept, especially for making deep personal change. And it can vary (I can be moderate with sugar, say, but have to be all-or-nothing with other things. No cheezits in the house).

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