You just need to decide!
Every good or bad thing happened in our life start with one simple decision.
Actually, making a decision is not so easy matter for most of us. So lets start with comparing why it could be difficult and why it should not to be.
Difficult:
- we have many option, that we do not know which one we should choose,
- we need to think about consequences,
- actually we are not sure if we want to change something,
- we are scared of change,
- big problem causing the other ones is that we overthink,
- we think that we have time and we can change something later...
Easy:
- we will not be satisfied until we DO what we want to do,
- we can feel very, very, deep inside, that we need change something,
- actually, we have not got so much time.
So why we need to think about million possible options? Until we do it, we did not stop think about it. Our mind can not be focused in present. We just need to listen our voice. Voice inside of our head, talking about necessity of change. If something bad happen the only thing we can do, is look at it, and try to learn from our new experience. And in other hand, if something good happen just enjoy and be gratefull.
Stop worried about everything. Do what you want to do, and feel the happiness spreading through your body. Do crazy things, do not think too much, be spontaneous. This are my advice, because we have one life and we should enjoy it in every single minute.