Shannon Vaughn
Sep 4, 2018 · 1 min read

It’s always nice if a person lets you know upfront. I’ve learned in dating you can’t expect for people to play fair.

Once a guy I was dating told me he will not consider a relationship with any one he hadn’t slept with. So yeah our situation never made it that far. I’m not a trial run. Sex doesn’t guarantee anything either way so I let it go.

I’m a firm believer that after a couple dates a person knows if they want to be with you or not. It’s up to us to not allow people to strong us along by taking control of our own actions.

Great post!

    Shannon Vaughn

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