My dad died, and I don’t know how to talk about it
Kristin Dean

Kristin, my heart goes out to you. And it’s true, the logistical morass that you face in the wake of loss is mind-blowing. My brother died suddenly a couple of years ago — hit by a drunk driver — and I hardly could process the loss for months because I was so caught up in dealing with funeral arrangements, bills, insurance, thanking people, finding random necessary things…the list could go on.

I noticed your note about the car. I thought I’d pass this on to you — something I wrote for Modern Loss. Great site worth looking at for writings on grief and loss. Strength and love to you.